Writer / director Andrew DeYoung’s unpleasant film “Friendship” is designed to make viewers feel uncomfortable with its exploration of social dynamics and personal obsession. The film’s decidedly male point of view delves into the challenges of forming meaningful connections while navigating the pitfalls of insecurity and desperation, but does so in a way that I can best describe as pessimistically awkward.
The story revolves around Craig (Tim Robinson), a suburban dad whose life takes a turn when an accidental delivery leads him to his charismatic new neighbor, Austin (Paul Rudd). The pair share an interest in “cool guy” things like punk rock, urban exploration, and paleolithic artifacts, and it seems like this may be the beginning of a promising friendship. But what begins as a seemingly innocent meet-cute quickly devolves into a masterclass of obsession and social awkwardness, especially because Craig is such a totally awkward weirdo who tries way too hard to fit in. Craig’s earnest attempts to bond with Austin soon spiral into increasingly awkward and invasive behavior, threatening to dismantle both his newfound friendship and his entire personal life.
Robinson, best known for his work on “I Think You Should Leave,” channels his signature style of cringe comedy into the role. His portrayal of Craig’s desperate need for validation and his inability to navigate social norms is both unsettling and fascinating, and it feels embarrassingly authentic. Robinson’s ability to oscillate between childlike vulnerability and uproarious (albeit uncomfortable) rage is on full display, and the film’s focus on social awkwardness and cringe moments may not resonate with everyone.
Rudd provides a charismatic counterbalance, with his signature rugged charm that masks a subtly flawed man. The pair add depth to the dynamics here, creating a contrast between affable and obsessive. The chemistry between Rudd and Robinson is a highlight, with Rudd’s laid-back demeanor providing a sharp foil to Robinson’s intense awkwardness.
The film is peppered with sight gags and absurdist humor but often leans too heavily into its uncomfortable (and dramatic) tone, which can overshadow the much-needed comedic elements. Those expecting a more traditional comedy are going to be disappointed, especially because overall it’s just not all that funny. Everything about this one is odd, but it does feature one of the very worst (and most memorable) cinematic drug trips of all time.
“Friendship” is an uncomfortable story of awkwardness that captures the desperation of a loser trying his best to fit in. It’s not the type of film that is particularly fun to watch, especially because it leans so heavily into off-putting cringe comedy. For that reason, I find it difficult to recommend.
